The human body isn't meant to carry a lot of the stresses of life that we put on it. New scientific studies are even showing that many life threatening diseases are triggered by stress. I know that personally, I always feel the need to censor myself and try to cope on my own because I know firsthand the damage that can be done if you put your confidence in the wrong people. There's only been one person that I've crossed paths with so far in life that I know I can tell anything to and she'll give me a honest reaction without judging me and most importantly not spread the happenings of my life like celebrity gossip.
Everyone should have one person in life that they can be radically honest with. A person who you can be unfiltered with and not have to worry about being judged or ridiculed. It takes a load of...
With that said, do you feel that your partner in a relationship should be the one you confide in radically? Who is your confidant?
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9 months ago
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That's definitely true. Its always good for the length of the relationship to confide in your significant other, however if and when this person chooses to move on with his/her life, you will loose allot, it will seems as if you have lost two person instead of one.
now who are you going to share your problems with?
After being married for almost 9 yrs, I would say that it's easy for me to confide in my wife. However, I do have a small crew of friends who I'll confide in as well. They help me when it's time to make critical decisions.
And I can talk to them when I feel that I can't talk to my wife...
Yes your partner should be the one that you can confide in and everything in. I feel that your significant other should be your best friend, the one who holds all your secrets, dreams, failures, etc.
I used to confide dam near everything into an Aunt of mine. She's not in the best health now, so I don't like to burden her as much. :(
Maybe it's because I haven't had a dude in a while, but I've thought it was weird that some people make their bf's their best friends as well. Right now I have a tight crew I can tell anything to, mainly because I have built years of trust with them. If my bf doesn't have that background with me, how am I supposed to tell him stuff, esp things that are going on with my family and that has been going on for years? That would require hours of backstories. And then after breaking up, like you mentioned, you have someone out there who knows all your ish and could feel that ur info is fair game for public consumption depending on the terms you guys left the relationship in. And straight up, I'm a trust worthy person, and know secrets people havn't told their wives. But if someone is evil to me and we end it that way; your info is fair game. I'm just mean like that. Now imagine a guy like me out there.
Damn!
I can't do it. I don't think I'll ever be able to confide in my significant other (except for my husband) the way I confide in my bestest and closest friends.
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